Imperfect

When Brian died it  it took me completely by surprise.   No inkling even in the back of my mind that he was ever capable of this.   If you had asked me prior to his death if I thought he might go that way I would have said absolutely not, never, not an option […]

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Rings

I think most widows wrestle with their rings soon after losing a spouse.    Do you still wear them and if so for how long?   Do you wear them on a different hand?   Do you put them away forever?     Here it’s five years out and I’m still wrestling with that.   […]

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